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EventsAugust 15, 2026 · 3 min read

Wedding RSVP: What to Ask Your Guests (Free Template)

The five questions that give you an accurate headcount, caterer-ready meal choices, and a happy guest list.

Wedding RSVP: What to Ask Your Guests (Free Template)

Every wedding planner knows the feeling: the date is weeks away and a third of the guest list has not replied. A well-designed RSVP form makes replying effortless — and effortless replies come back faster.

The questions that matter

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    Attendance — a clear yes or no with no middle ground.
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    Guest count — how many people they are bringing, so you can plan seating and catering.
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    Meal preference — chicken, fish, vegetarian or vegan. Your caterer will thank you.
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    Song request — a personal touch guests love, and your DJ gets a ready playlist.
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    A note to the couple — optional, but often the sweetest part of the replies.

Keep it short. Every extra field is a reason to postpone answering. The wedding RSVP template asks exactly these five things and nothing more.

How to collect replies without chasing

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    Print a QR code on the invitation that opens the form directly.
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    Set a reply deadline in the confirmation email.
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    Watch the headcount update in real time as replies arrive.
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    Export the guest list to CSV for the caterer and the seating plan.
The free wedding RSVP template gives you attendance, meal choices and song requests — and the final headcount updates automatically.

Set yours up in two minutes and stop chasing replies.

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Use the free Wedding RSVP template

Set it up in two minutes — no code, free during beta, and you can edit every field to fit your exact workflow.